[4][5][6] Among men who
The penetrating man lying on his back is the "top" and the receiving man is the "bottom" in the cowboy position
We all choose to have sex in different ways, whether we are gay or straight
Gay men choose from a wide range of sexual practices, including masturbation (either alone or with another person or persons), oral sex, anal intercourse, kissing, hugging, massage, wrestling, holding hands, cuddling or anything else that appeals to both partners
Many MSM, however, do not engage in anal sex, and may engage in oral sex, frottage or frot, and/or mutual masturbation instead
For some reasons given, men and women generally differed in their responses — whether they wanted more encounters, enjoyed the sex, were experimenting, or were drunk
Many straight people have this idea that gay sex is a messy affair, but as Dan Savage wrote in his book American Savage, “You don’t have anal sex with an ass full of shit for the same reason
Year after year, the number of people identifying as LGBTQ+ is increasing, meaning that there are more of us than ever facing our first same-sex encounter